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	<title>CHARIS SHALOM &#187; Relationship</title>
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	<description>A family, following Jesus, praying we will pave paths others will follow into a missional lifestyle</description>
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		<title>Deposing God in Marriage</title>
		<link>http://charisshalom.fjministries.com/2012/02/deposing-god-in-marriage/</link>
		<comments>http://charisshalom.fjministries.com/2012/02/deposing-god-in-marriage/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 09 Feb 2012 14:27:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bryan Riley</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://charisshalom.fjministries.com/?p=1486</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Last night we had a lovely dinner with a younger couple we have been blessed to get to know.  They are preparing to leave for Germany, as the husband is a pilot in the military.  They too have spent quite a bit of time doing international missions, meeting and falling in love along [...]]]></description>
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		<title>What is Prayer?</title>
		<link>http://charisshalom.fjministries.com/2012/01/what-is-prayer/</link>
		<comments>http://charisshalom.fjministries.com/2012/01/what-is-prayer/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Jan 2012 17:32:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bryan Riley</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Holy Spirit]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[hearing God's voice]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://charisshalom.fjministries.com/?p=1484</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I cannot claim to know everything about prayer, but I think too often we allow our understanding of what prayer is deter us from being a people of prayer.  As I explore the nature of prayer, in scripture and in my life, I am moving to a more simple understanding of it.  
Simply [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Love One Another</title>
		<link>http://charisshalom.fjministries.com/2010/07/love-one-another/</link>
		<comments>http://charisshalom.fjministries.com/2010/07/love-one-another/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Jul 2010 22:06:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bryan Riley</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://charisshalom.fjministries.com/?p=1431</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I wrote the below back in 2007 and have found it is great to read it again and again.  
Barry Austin, a YWAM Missionary of 40 years, shared with our group about ten &#8220;one anothers&#8221; found in scripture as he discussed the dynamics of relationships, and he noted there were many more in scripture. [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Lost and Losing It</title>
		<link>http://charisshalom.fjministries.com/2010/05/lost-and-losing-it/</link>
		<comments>http://charisshalom.fjministries.com/2010/05/lost-and-losing-it/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 30 May 2010 17:01:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bryan Riley</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Culture]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Family]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Passion/heart]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[dad]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Lost]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[mom]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://charisshalom.fjministries.com/?p=1414</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Riches.
They can be lost.  Proof?  Look at what the &#8220;economic collapse&#8221; of recent months and years has done to some portfolios.
Homes.  
They can be lost.  To fire.  To bankruptcy.  To divorce. 
Jobs.
They can be lost.  Businesses fail.  Layoffs happen.  People make mistakes and get fired.  [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Yancey on Legalism</title>
		<link>http://charisshalom.fjministries.com/2010/05/yancey-on-legalism/</link>
		<comments>http://charisshalom.fjministries.com/2010/05/yancey-on-legalism/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 03 May 2010 21:50:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bryan Riley</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Philip Yancey]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[What's So Amazing About Grace?]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://charisshalom.fjministries.com/?p=1398</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[&#8220;[T]he proof of your spiritual maturity is not how &#8216;pure&#8217; you are but awareness of your impurity.  The very awareness opens the door to grace.&#8221;  
&#8220;The spiritual games we play, many of which begin with the best of motives, can perversely lead us away from God, because they lead us away from grace. [...]]]></description>
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		<title>He Hearts Me!</title>
		<link>http://charisshalom.fjministries.com/2010/04/he-hearts-me/</link>
		<comments>http://charisshalom.fjministries.com/2010/04/he-hearts-me/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Apr 2010 10:18:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bryan Riley</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Faith]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Following Jesus]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Gentleness]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[idolatry]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://charisshalom.fjministries.com/?p=1393</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[
He loves me.
Why?  How?  Doesn&#8217;t He know?  Of course He knows&#8230;
He loves me still.
Knowing my whoring after all sorts of other gods, not the least of which is me, He died for me.  
He hearts me.  His heart burst for me.  And I can now live because He purifies [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Still Pondering Busy-ness</title>
		<link>http://charisshalom.fjministries.com/2010/02/still-pondering-busy-ness/</link>
		<comments>http://charisshalom.fjministries.com/2010/02/still-pondering-busy-ness/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Feb 2010 01:04:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bryan Riley</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://charisshalom.fjministries.com/?p=1361</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I love the Book of Habakkuk.  He was a guy who felt safe baring his soul to God.  He&#8217;s practically yelling at God.  Check it out:
 2 How long, O LORD, must I call for help,
       but you do not listen?
      [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Tried.  Convicted.  Tired.  Help!</title>
		<link>http://charisshalom.fjministries.com/2010/01/tried-convicted-tired-help/</link>
		<comments>http://charisshalom.fjministries.com/2010/01/tried-convicted-tired-help/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 30 Jan 2010 07:39:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bryan Riley</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Bible]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Prayer]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Spiritual Warfare]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Unity]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[patience]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://charisshalom.fjministries.com/?p=1349</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I realized today that I had been impatient with several people over the past week.  And I really regret it.  I decided to do a little personal study on patience.
The very first verse I read was this one (talk about adding to the conviction the Holy Spirit was already putting in my heart): [...]]]></description>
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		<title>It&#8217;s Not Necessary</title>
		<link>http://charisshalom.fjministries.com/2010/01/its-not-necessary/</link>
		<comments>http://charisshalom.fjministries.com/2010/01/its-not-necessary/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Jan 2010 16:56:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bryan Riley</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Culture]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Following Jesus]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[God]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Passion/heart]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Unity]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[judgment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[worship]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://charisshalom.fjministries.com/?p=1336</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Worship of God is a funny thing.  People get really concerned about how other people do it.  
For many of us, when we encounter someone worshiping the Lord in a way that is new to us, rather than deeming it &#8220;new,&#8221; &#8220;exciting,&#8221; or &#8220;encouraging,&#8221; we simply see it as &#8220;odd.&#8221;  I know [...]]]></description>
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		<title>What is our Greatest Need?</title>
		<link>http://charisshalom.fjministries.com/2009/12/what-is-our-greatest-need/</link>
		<comments>http://charisshalom.fjministries.com/2009/12/what-is-our-greatest-need/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 19 Dec 2009 01:18:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bryan Riley</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Bible]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[reconciliation]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Proverbs 17:1]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://charisshalom.fjministries.com/2009/12/what-is-our-greatest-need/</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Our first morning in Iligan City was December 17th, so I prepared for my day by meditating on Proverbs 17.  I had a hard time getting past the first verse because it leapt from the page as I began my reading.

Better a dry crust with peace and quiet        than a house full of [...]]]></description>
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