7th Sep, 2007

Why Do We Put Religion Over Relationship?

In the beginning God created the heavens and the Earth. He created and He created more and all of it was good. Then He created man and woman and it was very good. He so relished His creation that He walked with them and He talked with them. Man didn’t have to imitate the Real (religion); He was friends with the Real (relationship).

Then, man did the unthinkable. Man rejected God. God didn’t reject man. Man rejected God. God was still there walking in the garden, but Man was hiding from God. He rejected the Real (relationship) and chose to worship himself by seeking to be like God(religion).

God was distressed. God didn’t have a rod of correction ready to punish man; instead, He was there, in the garden, looking for man: “Where are you?”

The result of this choice? Death. Separation. Separation from what? Separation from relationship with the Real.

When we choose anything rather than God, when we seek first anything but the Kingdom of God and His righteousness, we are putting the imitation, religion, over the Real, which is relationship with our Heavenly Father. It really is all about God, not our own personal preferences or the imitation of Who God Is.

“May the God who gives endurance and encouragement give you a spirit of unity among yourselves as you follow Christ Jesus, so that with one heart and mouth you may glorify the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ. Accept one another, then, just as Christ accepted you, in order to bring praise to God.” In short, may God, your provider, enable you to glorify God by accepting your brothers and sisters just as God accepts you.

“I can’t work together in church with him. He believes you can baptize by sprinkling. I choose religion, not relationship.”

“I can’t accept her. She drinks wine. I choose religion, not relationship.”

“We can’t allow him to be a missionary. He has a prayer language. I choose religion, not relationship.”

“I’m first and foremost a [insert denomination] because they believe the Bible. I choose [denomination] over relationship.”

Can anyone explain how any of this conforms with the Word of God? With God’s design? With God’s desire to promote relationship over religion? Relationship over separation? Life over death?

Responses

As Voddie says, amen or oh me.
I believe ‘religion’ is the single most afront to God and His kingdom.
We all dabble in it, have lived there at some point in our lives, even if we don’t know it.
But God help us and purge this ‘religion’ from us.
Good one Bryan

Religion is easier to measure and control.

-Alan

Good answer, Alan, and scary. Scary that we are so bold as to proclaim that we want to control things rather than allow God to do so.

I sure am glad that God is immeasurable. God is infinite. Infinite in imagination and infinite in love.

Beautifully said Bryan. I found myself becoming sadder and sadder as I read each line of this post. I am praying, as I know others are, that the relationship will replace the futility of religion. It’s the relationship and the finding our satisfaction in Christ alone that will dramatically change the way the church is today. I love what John Piper says “God is most glorified in us, when we are most satisfied in Him.”

Jesus toughest words were directed towards those who held religion above relationship. Jesus was a friend of sinners. He valued compassion and mercy far more than the religious status quo of his day. It would do us all good to go back and reread His words in the Gospels where the scribes and Pharisees are addressed. As Reggie McNeal has stated, “The church in North America is not like the Pharisees–we are the Pharisees, and Jesus does not like Pharisees.”

There is a great letter, #14, posted by David Rogers at Love Each Stone, that outlines this topic wonderfully.

I have noticed Baptists speaking about their Baptist-ness, not their Jesus-ness in Blogtown, and I have to say it disappoints me every time.
I imagine these dear devotees of tradition saying,”Well, we gotta stand up for our history and standards!” and I imagine myself saying, “Why? Why?” The fields are so white with the harvest!!
I wonder if they think they just have all the time in the world, so there is time for such games and foolishness.

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